Breaking Bad News

Buckman’s 6-step guide: S.P.I.K.E.S.

Setting (and listening Skills):

  • Privacy
  • Involve significant others (1 spokesperson)
  • Sit down
  • Look attentive and calm – adopt the neutral posture of a psychotherapist
  • Listening Mode – silence and repetition
  • Availability

Patient’s Perception: “Before you tell, ask.”

Watch for denial and, if so, tread cautiously. Denial is an unconscious mechanism that may facilitate coping and should be treated gently over several interviews.

Invitation: invite patient to share information

Obtaining overt permission respects the patient’s right to know (or not to know).

Knowledge transmission:

Before you break bad news, give your patient a warning that bad news is coming. This gives you the chance to ease into the topic and gives the patient a few seconds longer to prepare psychologically for what may be coming.

As emotions and reactions arise during this discussion, acknowledge them and respond to them:

  • use the same language your patient uses — i.e. avoid technical, scientific language
  • give the information in small bites and clarify that the patient understands what you have said as the end of each parcel of information
  • tailor the rate at which you provide information to your patient

Explore Emotions and Empathise:

the empathic response + exploratory response >> validating feelings.

Summarise and Strategise

References

Adapted from: Buckman, R., M.D., Breaking Bad News: A Six-Step Protocol. How to Break Bad News: A guide for Health Care Professionals. John Hopkins, 1992.

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